when things should've been the way it was

I was just wondering what if we didn't do the things we've done. We should've stayed instead of tried or we should've conversed instead of convinced. While pondering on these statement, "what if's" are for those who are already contented with their comfort zone. After years of "doing the same old thing", it's quite hard getting our butts off the couch. Specially when you have specialized on a career for doing nothing.

Sometimes you feel sorry for those whom you have convinced to do something in their life and then...wham! didn't make it. Maybe you're partly responsible but don't go blaming yourself because it's really not your fault. It's their decision, maybe partly influenced by you, but not entirely. The decision to move is not yours. Decisions are made with balanced reasoning. And being human is also being rationale.

But when you won't get out of your comfort zone, then all your dreams will just be...dreams. If you work for it, pray for it, and got the attitude for it, then you're gonna get what you deserve to get. Because if we don't move, then it will just be some kid's dream and an old man's nightmare. "What If" are questions for those who won't try. "What If" are questions for those who lack the courage of doing it. And "What If" are the questions of a dying man that are answered with "I should have".

So to erase the questions that's bothering you for a long time, just step out of your shell, think out of the box, get out of your comfort zone.

And when you do, you won't be thinking ... when things should've been the way it was.